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Making Effective Connections in 2025

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Cassindy Chao is a former Goldman Sachs investment banker turned-expert matchmaker, author, and speaker specializing in relationship-building and leadership development. She is the founder of Ancient Wisdom, Modern Love, an elite matchmaking practice for high-net-worth professionals. She is also the author of the best-seller Ancient Wisdom, Modern Love: A Practical Guide to Modern Dating.

With a background in investment banking at J.P. Morgan and Goldman Sachs, Cassindy understands high-stakes relationship management and personal branding. She is also an angel investor, and serves in multiple leadership roles for non-profit organizations.

Featured in Business Insider, AsianBossGirl, CHIEF, and Janet Hanson’s book More Than 85 Broads, and speaker at notable university clubs. Cassindy shares actionable relationship strategies with executives and professionals so they can cultivate connections that drive success in both business and life.

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SPECIAL EVENTS & TALKS

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Speaking Topics:

  • Networking with Purpose: Building High-Value Professional Relationships

  • Lessons from a Matchmaker: The Psychology of Trust and Connection in Business & Relationships

  • The Art of Influence: How to Cultivate Leadership Presence & Expand Your Network

Working With Cassindy

  • Executive and former banker

  • Facilitated with candor, professionalism and warmth

  • Tailored to your organization’s culture and needs

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Focused & Engaging Presentations

Past Topics Include:

  • Navigating Work Relationships for Career Success

  • Belonging: Creating a Culture Bringing People Together to Achieve Goals and Objectives

  • Modern Dating 101 - An Evening with Matchmaker Cassindy

  • Dating as an Asian-American: Finding our Voices

  • How a Professional Woman Finds Their Partner in Life

How It Works

Step 1. Schedule a call to discuss your organizations goals and needs

Step 2. We work with you to develop a customized program

Step 3. Increased morale and energy for your audience to thrive and grow!

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In The Press

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I quit my $376,000 dream job at Goldman Sachs …

BUSINESS INSIDER ARTICLE

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  • Goldman Sachs to Matchmaking? Yes, THAT Kind of Matchmaking!

  • 9 Things to Never Do in the First Month of Dating: A Guide

  • Top 9 Signs of Chemistry on a First Date

  • Checklist of Love: What to Look for in a Partner

  • 5 Great Date Ideas in Palo Alto, CA